Izithende eziphakeme: ukukhululwa kwabesifazane noma ukugqilazwa?

Ezikhathini zanamuhla, izithende eziphakeme ziye zaba uphawu lobuhle besifazane. Abesifazane abagqoke izithende eziphakeme bahla benyuka benqamula imigwaqo yedolobha, benza indawo enhle. Abesifazane babonakala bethanda izicathulo eziphakeme ngokwemvelo. Ingoma ethi “Red High Heels” ichaza abesifazane abajaha izithende eziphakeme njengokujaha uthando, abanothando futhi abangazithibi, “Ukuchaza kanjani ngokufaneleka kakhulu / uma uqhathanisa nawe ukuze ukhethekile / uzizwe unamandla kodwa ungenamandla kakhulu kuwe Ukuqonda kuwumzwelo ongokwemvelo/... njengezicathulo eziphakeme ezibomvu ongakwazi ukuzibeka phansi.”

Ukuqala kochungechunge lwe-TV "Ngingase Ngingakuthandi" eminyakeni embalwa edlule futhi kwachaza leli "phupho elinezithende eziphakeme": izicathulo ezithende eziphakeme zibonisa ukuguqulwa kwentombazane kuya kowesifazane, futhi iphupho layo yonke intombazane. Esigcawini sikamabonakude, ozakwabo emnyangweni wokuklama bethula ugqozi lokuklama kwezicathulo ezintsha zochungechunge lwamantombazane-”Ishumi nesikhombisa isizini yamantombazane okuba izintombi, iminyaka ephupha kakhulu, enemibalabala neqotho. Iphupho lamantombazane aneminyaka eyishumi nesikhombisa Lithini? I-ballerina, i-tulle, ithambile, futhi yothando, ihambisana ngokuphelele nomkhathi wentwasahlobo ", ngakho-ke izicathulo ezintsha ezethulwa ozakwethu ziyizo zonke izinhlobo zezicathulo eziklanywe ngesitayela sezicathulo zokudansa, ukulingisa izicathulo ze-ballet. Kodwa umholi wesifazane oneminyaka engu-29 ubudala u-Cheng Youqing waphendula: “Iphupho lentombazane eneminyaka eyishumi nesikhombisa liyipheya lokuqala lezicathulo eziphakeme ekuphileni kwayo, hhayi izicathulo ze-ballet. Yonke intombazane ifuna ukukhula ngokushesha futhi ibe nezithende zayo eziphakeme ngokushesha. ”

Izithende eziphakeme, ezinhle, imfashini, i-sexy ne-sultry, ayikwazi nje ukwandisa umphumela obonakalayo wemilenze yabesifazane, kodwa futhi yenza izinyawo zabesifazane zibe mncane futhi zihlangene. Bangakwazi futhi ukuhambisa isikhungo sokudonsela phambili kwabesifazane phambili, ngokuqaphela baphakamise amakhanda abo nezifuba kanye nesisu. Izinqe zakha ijika elimise okuka-S. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izicathulo ezinezithende eziphakeme nazo zithwala amaphupho abesifazane. Ukufaka izicathulo ezinezithende eziphakeme kubonakala kuhlome ngezikhali ezibukhali kakhulu. Umsindo wokuhamba nokugqolozela ufana nobizo olucacile lokuqhubekela phambili, ukusiza abesifazane ukuthi bakhokhise endaweni yokusebenza nempilo, ngaphandle kokubi. U-Miranda, umhleli oyinhloko wephephabhuku eliphezulu lemfashini elithi "Indlovukazi Egqoke I-Prada", usezithendeni eziphakeme. Cha, kufanele kushiwo ukuthi ufana nezithende ze-stiletto kuphosta ethi "Indlovukazi Egqoke I-Prada", ebukhali futhi ebukhali, enkundleni yempi yefashini. Ukuqhubekela phambili ngesibindi nokungenakunqotshwa, sekube umgomo abesifazane abaningi abawulangazelelayo nabawuphishekelayo.


Isikhathi sokuthumela: Mar-01-2021