Indaba Yomsunguli
"NiniNgangiyingane, izicathulo eziphakeme kwakuyiphupho nje kimi. Njalo lapho gqoka izithende eziphakeme ezingafanelekile zikamama, ngihlale nginesifiso sokukhula ngokushesha, ngale ndlela kuphela, ngiyakwazi ukugqoka izicathulo eziphakeme kakhulu futhi ezingcono, izimonyo nengubo enhle, yilokho engicabanga ngakho njengokukhula.
Omunye wathi kuwumlando odabukisayo wesithende, kanti abanye bathi yonke imishado iyinkundla yezicathulo eziphakeme. Ngincamela isingathekiso sakamuva."
Iintombazane, eyacabanga ukuthi ikwazi ukugqoka leso sithende esibomvu esisodwa emcimbini wayo wobudala, ngenhliziyo elangazelela, iphenduke, ijikeleze, izungeze. Ineminyaka engu-16, yafunda ukugqoka izithende eziphakeme. Eneminyaka engu-18, wahlangana nensizwa elungile.Eneminyaka engu-20, emshadweni wakhe, imuphi umncintiswano wokugcina ayefuna ukuba kuwo.Kodwa wazitshela ukuthi intombazane egqoka isithende esiphezulu kumele ifunde ukumamatheka nokubusisa.
Wayesesitezi sesibili, kodwa isithende sakhe esiphakeme sashiya esitezi sokuqala. Wakhumula isithende esiphezulu futhi wajabulela inkululeko yalesi sikhathi. Ngakusasa ekuseni wayezogqoka isithende sakhe esisha futhi aqale indaba entsha.
Yenaubelokhu ethanda izicathulo, ikakhulukazi izithende eziphakeme. Izingubo zingaphana, futhi abantu bazothi muhle. Futhi izingubo zingaboshwa, futhi abantu bazothi uyathandeka. Kodwa izicathulo kufanele zilungile, zingagcini nje ngokufanele, kodwa futhi zanelise. Lolu uhlobo lobuhle obuthule, kanye ne-narcissism ejulile yowesifazane futhi. Njengoba nje isiliphu sengilazi silungiselelwa i-Cinderella. Umuntu wesifazane ozicabangela yena yedwa futhi oyisiphukuphuku akakwazi ukuyifaka ngisho enqunywe izinzwane. Ubumnandi obunjalo bobumsulwa nokuthula komphefumulo kuphela.
Ukholelwa ukuthi kulesi sikhathi, abantu besifazane bangaba narcissistic. Njengoba nje wakhumula isithende sakhe esiphakeme ngaleso sikhathi, futhi wafaka isithende esisha esiphakeme. Unethemba lokuthi inqwaba yabesifazane izonikwa amandla ngokunyathela izithende ezingaboshiwe nezibalingana kahle.
Yena waqala ukufunda ukuklama izicathulo zabesifazane, wamisa ithimba lakhe le-R & D, futhi wasungula uhlobo oluzimele lwezicathulo zezicathulo ngo-1998. Wagxila ekucwaningeni indlela yokwenza izicathulo zabesifazane ezikhululekile nezemfashini. Wayefuna ukwephula isimiso futhi nje abeke kabusha yonke into. Uthando nokugxila kwakhe kulo mkhakha kumenze waba yimpumelelo enkulu emkhakheni wezokwakhiwa kwengqephu eChina. Imiklamo yakhe yasekuqaleni nengalindelekile, ehlangene nombono wakhe oyingqayizivele kanye namakhono okuthunga, ithathe umkhiqizo phezulu.Kusukela ngo-2016 kuya ku-2018, lo mkhiqizo ubhalwe ohlwini lwemfashini oluhlukahlukene, futhi ubambe iqhaza ohlelweni olusemthethweni lwe-Fashion Week. Ngo-Agasti 2019, umkhiqizo wawina isicoco somkhiqizo onethonya kakhulu wezicathulo zabesifazane e-Asia.
Ininhlolokhono yakamuva, umsunguli wacelwa ukuba achaze ugqozi lwakhe lokuklama ngamagama. Akazange anqikaze ukubeka amaphuzu ambalwa: umculo, amaphathi, izinto ezithakazelisayo, ukuhlukana, ukudla kwasekuseni, namadodakazi ami.
Izicathulo ziheha, ezingathopha ijika elimnandi lamathole akho, kodwa kude nokungaqondakali kobhodisi. Ungasho ngobumpumputhe ukuthi abantu besifazane banamabele amnandi kuphela. I-sexy ehloniphekile ivela ekucashile, njengezithende eziphakeme. Kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi izinyawo zibaluleke kakhulu kunobuso, futhi kunzima, ngakho-ke masigqoke izicathulo zethu esizithandayo futhi siye ezulwini ngamaphupho ethu.
